At Family Care for Children & Youth (FCCY), our commitment goes beyond simply fulfilling our responsibilities; we are dedicated to excelling in every aspect of our work. Our ultimate goal is to provide vulnerable children with the stability, warmth, and care they deserve in safe and nurturing homes. To help you make a positive impact as a foster parent, we’ve compiled a list of dos and don’ts that can guide you on this remarkable journey. Learn more and get in touch with our foster care agency to become a foster parent or learn more about the process.
Do Listen to Your Foster Child’s Needs
It is critical that you listen carefully to your foster child and take their needs seriously. While it may be hard to confront difficult emotions, it is essential that you create a safe environment for them to express their feelings without fear of judgment.
Don’t Lose Your Temper
It’s natural to become frustrated at times, but it is important to remain calm and composed when working with your foster child. Losing your temper and resorting to yelling or punishment only creates an atmosphere of distrust and fear. Instead, try speaking respectfully in a low voice and using constructive disciplinary measures whenever possible.
Do Establish Routines and Boundaries
Having a regular schedule and set of boundaries will provide your foster child with structure, security, and consistency. Everyday routines can help them feel settled in their new environment. At the same time, it’s important to establish firm boundaries so that they know how to behave appropriately.
Don’t Be Overly Critical
Although it is essential to be honest and have high expectations, foster parents should also be nurturing and supportive of their children. Love and compassion are just as important as discipline; being too critical with your words or actions can severely damage the relationship between you and your foster child.
Caring for a foster child can be one of the most rewarding experiences in life. With these dos and don’ts, you can ensure that your foster child finds emotional and physical stability along with a sense of belonging in their new home. FCCY is here to support you every step of the way — contact us today to learn more about the process!
